In Elisabeth Elliot's, The Shaping of a Christian Family she writes of finding joy in your work.
Here is the story of 3 women washing clothes:
A passerby asked each of the women what she was doing...
"Washing clothes." was the first answer.
"A bit of household drudgery," was the second.
"I'm mothering 3 young children who someday will fill important and useful spheres in life, and washday is a part of my grand task in caring for these souls who shall live forever."was the third.
I cannot sit here and write that I have always had such an attitude while doing "monotonous" chores. If I could rewrite, using some of Elisabeth Elliot's words, the response of mother #3, it would go something like this:
I am a wife to a man I respect, a mother to 6 children I love and I plead that I am, God-willing, doing this here laundry for the glory of God. For I long to see it not as drudgery, but as a grand task and holy privilege, ordained by God.
The richest heritage I can leave my children is a Godly example.
SO HOW DO I DO LAUNDRY FOR SIX CHILDREN:
I have color-coded my baskets for each group of "persons" with colored sticky dots that I have put on the handles of the white baskets. I have also labeled each basket with an indelible pen. This allows my small children to not only learn their colors, but also "play the sorting game."
Mind you, that does not work when they get old enough to learn that it isn't a game, but by then they have learned responsibilty for the care of their own laundry.
For example:
1. My older boys share a room. Their basket is labeled "Boys" with a red dot.
2. The twins share a room. Their basket is labeled "Twins" with a yellow dot.
3. The girls share a room. Their basket is labeled "Girls with a pink dot.
4. My husband has his own basket labeled "Dad" with a blue dot.
5. And mine is labeled "mom" without a dot. (I ran out of colors)
When we first learned how to sort laundry, I would tell them by color, which basket to put that particular item of clothing in. Now they have the colors memorized and some are reading, so I drop a huge pile on the floor and they sort them quite well on their own. (I have 4 pre-schoolers that LOVE to do this... I have video taped them telling me how much fun it is, so when it isn't so much fun anymore, I can get out the nifty recording and haunt them with it.)
When all of the laundry is clean and sorted, they put it away. They know where everything goes, so my assistance is becoming less and less.
Do they put it away perfectly?
About as perfectly as they make their bed and fold towels.
Does it really matter?
No.
They did it themselves for the most part and I try not to go back and "fix" what they have worked hard at doing...